This is What Happens When You Unleash 500 Singles on an IRL Date
February 21, 2025 at 05:41AMKassondra Cloos’s piece on a singles ski trip to Val Thorens made me nostalgic for the many European ski trips that I did in my 20s—to a point. Now that I am in my 40s, there is no way I could keep up with the amount of debauchery and skiing she manages to fit into a week. It’s a wild, fun ride, and you will enjoy bouncing along with her in this exuberant essay that superficially looks at dating culture but, really, is all about the après.
“I’m not talking to the press,” a ski-trip alum posts in the trip WhatsApp chat when he sees on Instagram that I—a journalist—have been deployed to report. “What happens on ski trip stays on ski trip.” (Later, he’ll demand to be in the headline.)
Getting busted is probably for the best: I’d been reluctant to out myself as a writer because I didn’t want to end up playing wallflower, but I suppose journalistic ethics should apply even in the hot tub. I resolve to make some ground rules that mainly boil down to “Do no harm.” I won’t hide that I’m here as a journalist, but I won’t shout about it either. I won’t name anyone or share identifying details without permission. Meanwhile anything that I do, or that happens to me: fair game.
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from Longreads https://longreads.com/2025/02/20/this-is-what-happens-when-you-unleash-500-singles-on-an-irl-date/
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